It’s a large portion of my day job to think about where content goes and how to present it. This means, unfortunately, when you send me a twenty word email at 7PM with a single idea, I’m prone to respond with a 1402 word email at 9PM explaining in far too much detail and research every reason why I think differently.
I’d call it a side effect of wisdom and doing “what I do” for over a decade now, but it’s more like exposing your own war wounds so another soldier will stop wanting to follow the other guy into a mine field. Confidence in the perceived competence of someone else is nothing compared to actual experience of your own.